Be Still, Already


I have a desk calendar by Sarah Young at work. Much like the devotional book my husband and I share every morning, this too tends to speak to my situation on a daily basis. Today, well, today it screamed at me! “I will fight for you; you need only to be still.” That is how it opens. The devotion urges me to rest in my heavenly Father. That caught my attention but let me share the second half, this devotion really hits home for me. If I am really honest I hear this in my head, spoken in the voice of my spiritual mother, Momma Joi.
“Quieting your body is somewhat challenging for you, but stilling your mind may often seem downright impossible. In your striving to feel secure, you have relied too heavily on your own thinking. This struggle to be in control has elevated your mind to a position of autonomy. So you need the intervention of the Holy Spirit. Ask Him to control your mind more and more-soothing you from the inside out. Take time to rest in the shadow of the Almighty while I fight for you.” (Young, 2012)

Want to know to two hardest things I do in relation to my faith: 1. Leaving things in God’s hands and 2. Fasting. I can and have fasted, in fact we fast weekly but most of the time I only fast the 6am to 6pm. There is no shame in a partial fast, but why does it seem so difficult for me? I would love to spout out some eloquent excuse that gives some biological reason I need to eat, but the fact is even the fasting goes back to my brain.
“This struggle to be in control has elevated your mind to a position of autonomy.” I have never been very confident of my appearance, so I put most of my confidence in my brain. Be it my ability to be a solid student or creating things in verse, I held to intellect, brain power as my validation. (It also made me often sound like an arrogant jerk.) Let’s consider autonomy for a moment. Sounds pretty sophisticated and positive in most cases but when we talk about our faith…autonomy is fatal. Autonomy is “freedom from external control or influence; independence.” (Oxford, 2018) The entire concept of faith lies in being dependent on God. Trusting God. Autonomy is self-trust and self-propulsion.

Those who are driven, tend to be somewhat autonomous. I can’t help but think I am still discovering the depth of Ms. Joi’s word of admonition regarding me and “drive”. I find the more I pray and the more I read the word, the easier it is to take my hands off the steering wheel. I am also learning to be honest with God. It’s not easy for me sometimes, but what a difference it makes.

God already knows what I think and feel. The act of telling Him that I am frustrated or feel passed over changes the dynamic. In that admission, I am able to open myself to the Spirit’s ministry. God meets us where we are and sometimes that is in the middle of a misguided rant that rivals the best toddler fit. I do many things now to quiet my mind and allow me to focus on God and sometimes just to enjoy stillness. I am learning that I don’t have to act like nothing bothers me. I do not have to pretend that everything is well. I have to speak in faith, act in faith and be honest with God so He can navigate me through whatever struggle I may be facing.

We ALL have moments. You can look at the heroes of the Bible, the men known as Friends of God, and they struggled with doubt, frustration and times of horrible judgement or succumbing to temptation. Many of them argued with God…Abraham negotiated with God over Sodom and Gomorrah, Jacob wrestled with God, and Moses tried to tell God what he couldn’t do. None of that stopped God from blessing them and using them. My “moments” will not prevent God from using or blessing me, because I seek Him.

Stop trying to be autonomous. Life is too big for us to try and control it. The battle is too big for you and me, but for God it is nothing. So, let’s let God be God and stop trying to take things off his plate.
 
Oxford. (2018, March 21). English Oxford Living Dictionaries. Retrieved from https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/autonomy

Young, S. (2012). Jesus Today. Nashville, Tennessee: Thomas Nelson.

 


 

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